Back to the basics of communication
| Added: 15-03-2010 Author: Bob Lucas Category: Communication |
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o Look at me when I talk with you! (Often said with a loud, annoyed)
o Shut up and listen to me!
o No!
o Do not talk to me in that tone of voice...
o When I asked a question, you get the best answer I ...
o Do not speak unless you are spoken to.
o Children should be seen and not heard.
o That is a silly/stupid thing to say.
The statement was not particularly a type of communication that encourages dialogue, or buy into what you are saying that, right? However, how many times you've heard the same language is used when an adult is talking to the child, or even other adults? As a result of the communication is that, while the flowers can memperoleh or give informasi, the benefit of undivided attention, or to facilitate feedback, sering opposite effect. For many people raised in the United States, the purpose of the statement mentioned the sample may be valid because:
o Direct eye contact often does indicate interest.
o communication recipient must be actively listen to what is said to understand the message sender.
o Tone of voice carries many messages.
o When asked the question, in this process is respectful answer.
o If someone does not know much about the topic, the best way to learn is to listen patiently and then, if necessary, ask questions.
Unfortunately, unless the concepts effectively communicated to the children with a non-threatening manner, the effect is the desire to deviate. As a result, positive learning communication skills with adults often fail to repeat the negative behavior.
So, what ways we can communicate with other people? According to research done by Albert Mehrabian's in the 1960s, and supported by other people since then, and emosi makna messages between two people can menjadi affected significantly, and comes from the following sources:
Non-verbal cues, which accounts for fifty-five (55) percent of the messages. This includes facial expression, gesture with his hands, arms, kepala, and legs, appearance and personal hygiene, how the presentation diri (misalnya clothing, clothing zivaliwe, car driven, the design house / office) and the actions or inactions.
Discussions cues account for thirty-eight (38) percent and including voice tone, volume (loudness or softness), pitch, speech rate and articulation or pronunciation of words.
The words used by speakers and listeners with the target either by level of education or understanding, because only seven (7) percent of the meaning of the message. This includes grammar, syntax, use of jargon and various other things related to what they say. Do not think that because of the low percentage of words that are not important --- they are.
When communicating, remember that in any two-way dialogue, there are four possible messages file:
1. The message you want to send.
2. The message you thought you sent.
3. The message you actually sent.
4. The message the receiver understood.
And this in mind, always thinking to share the message before you speak and then ensure that the correct way to use communication.
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